Happy Birthday

[mstzanicki]

I'm sorry, I completely forgot yesterday, but....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY virtuoussin85!!!!!



I have no idea what kind of cake you like but this one looks pretty

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[mstzanicki.livejournal.com]

yeah. I try to avoid the main streets in the bigger cities. it's good I know alternative routes. not many pedestrians in those areas, but there's way too many on the main streets.

you should move down south, or to the west, or southwest for that matter then. you won't have to deal with any more snow. that's insane. I feel so sorry for her. is she an only child?

yeah. it was. my mom got a picture of it. I should take pictures of my tree, but I lost the batter charger for my digital camera, so it's been dead for over a year. I don't trust my mom with doing the decorations, I've become OCD about it. so I can't stand other people doing it, except for my nephew yesterday, but he asked me where he should place things.

[virtuoussin85.livejournal.com]

That's good, at least you know ways to avoid some of them.

That would be nice, and maybe eventually I will. I want to move anyway, no idea where though. But kinda can't at the moment. And yeah, she's an only child. So that doesn't help, I don't think.

Aww, that's just so cute! That sucks, but it sounds like something I would do. I always go to put things somewhere so I won't lose them, and end up losing them anyway. See, my Mom is the OCD one, not me, so probably why she does it anyway. I'm sure my Nana was driving her nuts with everything. Another reason I stayed out of the way.

[mstzanicki.livejournal.com]

yeah.

oh. I'm sure you'll be able to eventually. no, that doesn't help. if she had an older sibling who rebelled, then it would loosen up her mom. but since she's the only child, she could try to rebel, but she'll have no kind of support within her family which sucks.

thing is, I think I lost it in my friend's house up north when I was still going to school there and they moved out of that area around the same time I transferred out. my fault. I wouldn't be OCD with it if I haven't been doing it for so long, but the tree is kind of like my baby now, so...

[virtuoussin85.livejournal.com]

She wouldn't anyway. She's like so brainwashed into thinking like her mother. It's scary. I'm like, you're not a 60 year old woman, stop acting like one! We had a whole big fight not to long ago about some of that stuff. Not fun. I'm lucky, I've been kinda given my freedom since I turned 18. It's not that my parents don't care, but they feel, I need to learn on my own, since I am an adult and all or at least supposed to be one.

Ohh, then that really sucks. Can you get a replacement one? I can see that. I think I would feel the same had I been doing it for so long too.

[mstzanicki.livejournal.com]

if that's how she thinks, then I guess there's not too much of a problem there. but if she hated it, then i can see it would get annoying. but it's still sad that she doesn't really want her own freedom. my mom, every now and then, tries to be strict and pulls out the 'I'm-the-parent-card' which I pay no attention to. but if I'm out late or something, she makes no fuss about it. I think she got too used to it from dealing with my sister. she still wants us to be like little kids and depend on her for everything, but she wasn't even really around when I was growing up, she had no hand in raising me other than providing money, so I don't feel the need to really listen to her when she tries to be a parent now. that's kind of why I have my own freedom as well.

I could. I just haven't gone looking for one. even though I know it's really easy to just look online for it.

[virtuoussin85.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I think I'm the one that gets more frustrated with her situation then she does. She doesn't see anything wrong with it. I on the other hand couldn't deal with that. I would have totally rebelled. I'm glad my parents gave me more freedom. Though I find it kinda funny, that actually Thursday night, my Dad found it necessary to give me the don't drink and drive talk, because Wednesday night when I came home, I was a little tipsy. I was perfectly fine, I had had only two margaritas. But I didn't eat much, so I was feeling it a bit, but I was trying to. I went out with two friends, but it was so awkward at first. They weren't really talking or anything. So. Yeah, but it was kinda funny, because I've never really been given any of those talks or anything.

Too easy, it would probably take like two minutes. Speaking for myself, when ever it's that easy, that's when I always put it off.

[mstzanicki.livejournal.com]

oh wow. I would have rebelled too, but I got lucky having an older sister who broke all the borders. that's funny. your dad is silly. how do margaritas taste, I've never tried them? no talking, at all. that is awkward.

same. which is why I haven't done it yet.

[virtuoussin85.livejournal.com]

I'm the oldest. So I get to set all the examples, not that me and my brother are close or anything. I think it's funny that we live in the same house, but barely ever see each other. We're both good kids, I have to say. Never gave my parents that much trouble. My Mom told me today too, I dunno how we got on the subject, of some of the stuff she did, she was a lot worse than I was.

Of course.

[mstzanicki.livejournal.com]

oh, how fun. my sister and I are 10 years apart so we get along just fine. maybe that's why your parents give you more freedom then.

[virtuoussin85.livejournal.com]

Oh wow, that's a big age gap. Are there any more siblings in the middle? Or is it just you two?

It's just me and my brother, and he's 3 years younger than I am.

[mstzanicki.livejournal.com]

nope, there's just us two. we were supposed to have a brother in between us, 3 years younger than her, 7 years older than me, but my mom had a still-birth with him.

[virtuoussin85.livejournal.com]

Ohh, that's so sad. My lost one in between me and my brother. He was born alive, but there were so many things wrong with him, I think he only lived for like two days at the most.

[mstzanicki.livejournal.com]

that's so sad too. I'm sorry.