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Nicki ([personal profile] mstzanicki) wrote2009-12-13 05:15 pm
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Happy Birthday

I'm sorry, I completely forgot yesterday, but....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY [livejournal.com profile] virtuoussin85!!!!!



I have no idea what kind of cake you like but this one looks pretty

[identity profile] mstzanicki.livejournal.com 2009-12-19 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
if that's how she thinks, then I guess there's not too much of a problem there. but if she hated it, then i can see it would get annoying. but it's still sad that she doesn't really want her own freedom. my mom, every now and then, tries to be strict and pulls out the 'I'm-the-parent-card' which I pay no attention to. but if I'm out late or something, she makes no fuss about it. I think she got too used to it from dealing with my sister. she still wants us to be like little kids and depend on her for everything, but she wasn't even really around when I was growing up, she had no hand in raising me other than providing money, so I don't feel the need to really listen to her when she tries to be a parent now. that's kind of why I have my own freedom as well.

I could. I just haven't gone looking for one. even though I know it's really easy to just look online for it.

[identity profile] virtuoussin85.livejournal.com 2009-12-20 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I think I'm the one that gets more frustrated with her situation then she does. She doesn't see anything wrong with it. I on the other hand couldn't deal with that. I would have totally rebelled. I'm glad my parents gave me more freedom. Though I find it kinda funny, that actually Thursday night, my Dad found it necessary to give me the don't drink and drive talk, because Wednesday night when I came home, I was a little tipsy. I was perfectly fine, I had had only two margaritas. But I didn't eat much, so I was feeling it a bit, but I was trying to. I went out with two friends, but it was so awkward at first. They weren't really talking or anything. So. Yeah, but it was kinda funny, because I've never really been given any of those talks or anything.

Too easy, it would probably take like two minutes. Speaking for myself, when ever it's that easy, that's when I always put it off.

[identity profile] mstzanicki.livejournal.com 2009-12-20 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
oh wow. I would have rebelled too, but I got lucky having an older sister who broke all the borders. that's funny. your dad is silly. how do margaritas taste, I've never tried them? no talking, at all. that is awkward.

same. which is why I haven't done it yet.

[identity profile] virtuoussin85.livejournal.com 2009-12-20 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
I'm the oldest. So I get to set all the examples, not that me and my brother are close or anything. I think it's funny that we live in the same house, but barely ever see each other. We're both good kids, I have to say. Never gave my parents that much trouble. My Mom told me today too, I dunno how we got on the subject, of some of the stuff she did, she was a lot worse than I was.

Of course.

[identity profile] mstzanicki.livejournal.com 2009-12-20 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
oh, how fun. my sister and I are 10 years apart so we get along just fine. maybe that's why your parents give you more freedom then.

[identity profile] virtuoussin85.livejournal.com 2009-12-20 04:20 am (UTC)(link)
Oh wow, that's a big age gap. Are there any more siblings in the middle? Or is it just you two?

It's just me and my brother, and he's 3 years younger than I am.

[identity profile] mstzanicki.livejournal.com 2009-12-20 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
nope, there's just us two. we were supposed to have a brother in between us, 3 years younger than her, 7 years older than me, but my mom had a still-birth with him.

[identity profile] virtuoussin85.livejournal.com 2009-12-20 01:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Ohh, that's so sad. My lost one in between me and my brother. He was born alive, but there were so many things wrong with him, I think he only lived for like two days at the most.

[identity profile] mstzanicki.livejournal.com 2009-12-20 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
that's so sad too. I'm sorry.